“To my younger self who struggled with relationships, I want to give this book as a gift even if it requires time travel.”

- 90s born, KA A -

Samsung, LG, Hyundai, SK, Starbucks Korea, and others invite a human relationship psychologist and relationship expert from Seoul National University who teaches

“Relationship Lessons for Adults These Days”

In the Time I Hate You, I Chose to Love Myself

“Why I Chose Myself First and Found the Strength to Love Myself”

“A book full of warmth and praise that sincerely embraces the hurt heart of young adults who face the most difficult human relationships.”

Heartfelt Praise from Advance Readers Who Moved Even the Editor

“Instead of hating others, this is a book of sincere gratitude that uses 'I care for myself' time and emotions.”
- A female office worker in her 30s, a marketing specialist at a startup -

“The last page resonated with my heart’s feeling. I cried along with the words.”
- A female in her 40s, a book reviewer and mother of two children -

“To my younger self who struggled with relationships, I want to give this book as a gift even if it requires time travel.”
- A female in her 60s, a university professor -

3 Ground Rules to Improve Relationship Intelligence!

I Must Love Myself for Others to Respect Me

Before you hate someone who doesn’t satisfy you, you must first listen to and understand your own hurt feelings.

The person next to you must be the one who waits for you in the right time,
The right person to get along with,
And the one who candidly communicates the truth to you with honesty.
Then you can focus on that relationship without being swayed by others and protect yourself properly.

- From the author's words -